What Is A Secret?


 1. Not known or seen or meant to be known or seen by others.

 1. Something that is kept or meant to be kept unknown or seen by others.

In my opinion, there are no secrets.

Once something is made known or is seen, it is no longer a secret. It's amazing to me how humans take words and consistently use them out of context.

The Secret 

We have a secret, just we three,   The robin, and I, and the sweet cherry-tree;   The bird told the tree, and the tree told me,   And nobody knows it but just us three. 
 But of course the robin knows it best,   Because she built the—I shan't tell the rest;   And laid the four little—something in it—  I'm afraid I shall tell it every minute. 
 But if the tree and the robin don't peep,   I'll try my best the secret to keep;   Though I know when the little birds fly about   Then the whole secret will be out. 

The Difference Between Preference and Judgement

I recently had an experience where I was judged based on someone else’s preference. 
The situation went like this, “Do you think this person is pretty?” I didn’t agree with that persons preference but did not shame them for believing or feeling the way they did about the other persons beauty. Moments later, I was being attacked for being, “untrustworthy,” and a ton of other things that simply aren’t who I am or what I stand for in my life. This situation, even though it occurred months ago, prompted me to share this piece with you all today. 
Preference: A greater liking for one alternative over another or others.
Judgement: The ability to make considered decisions or come to sensible conclusions; a misfortune or calamity view as a divine punishment.

In no way, shape or form is it okay to put others down based on your own preferences. We are all entitled to like what we like, and dislike what we wish to dislike. There is a difference between preference and judgement. What occurred during …

DIY Hair Mask Monday NOV 21 2016

DIY Homemade Hair Mask Yesterday I made my 3rd homemade hair mask, but this time I used a different recipe in result of one of the main ingredients not being available.  As many of you know, I have worn my hair natural for the past three years, which takes a lot of patience and care. I used to co-wash between 3-5x's a week to maintain the fresh look of my curls, however, I've changed my regimen to co-washing 1-2x's a week at max., and shampoo 1-2x's a month.  The texture of my hair is what would be known as a combination of 3b - 4a. Yes, I have 3 different kinds of curl patterns going on, and believe it or not, this is not uncommon. 

I wanted to share this hair mask for women who seek to add length, shine, and strength to their natural hair. Also very beneficial for women who straighten their hair as well.

 Here are the ingredients I used:
1 Whole Banana2 Medium Eggs1 TBSP Coconut Oil1/3 Cup Coconut Milk1/2 TBSP Olive Oil
Other Things You'll Need: (If you don't …

Floating to the Left And The Right

I lay here and think to myself, "Why do I keep asking for permission to love you?"
Why do I feel the need to ask you for your permission to say that "I like you", "I want to be a part of you again", I just want you to understand: I want you.

I have never felt this way before; not even when Ancient Language played all my heart scores. Not when I found myself running a restaurant and working 12 hour days . . .

Not even when I closed my eyes and walked away.
There is nothing as sweet as the taste of your lips, or the way that you speak that this soul, you uplift. Your words are always bright and your energy, like the molecules vibrantly spinning around in the air, giving us all so much love and light.

I constantly tell you that you're such a blessed soul, and the woman that will have you is the luckiest I know.
Hiding my eyes with both hands; when my heart sinks deep and I think of those days. .  How can such a man exist, you know, the one we believe o…

Moving Through Time

This evening I happened to stumble upon a post from my boyfriend's friend. He wrote something along these lines, "Why is it that when I don't care about what's happening and simply going about life, everything works out fine. However, when I am actually trying to do right, the world seems to work against me."

Oh how we know the reality of this statement all too well. 
Sitting and thinking over this, I've realized that sometimes our consciousness seems to attract the opposite of our natural way of being; especially in our thinking. When we are seeking results from certain actions, we tend to attract the opposite. When we aren't focused on results at all, we tend to get exactly what we need.

Light Denim + Light Knits Kristi W.

Tonight I don't feel like it, but I might just experience exactly what I need. It's been about three weeks since I've been in the arms of the man who loves me. I've dealt with being attacked energetically, verbally - a…


Everyday I am learning the most amazing lessons through energy, verbal communication with other beings/higher powers and the ending/beginning of relationships. 
For the record, I would like to state that I am not a relationship guru, nor do I judge, condemn or focus my energy on situations involving others without their permission or consent first. 
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The past two weeks have been an eye opener. . the days and nights have opened my eyes (and heart) to my lover, my son, my family and friends. .even strangers. I don't go on my way without speaking to fellow men passing by. I'm doing the best I can to rid myself of previous conditioning and beliefs that limit me in my capacity to grow, learn, and love all that there is about this beautiful life experience
#4 Editorial for Imperium Kobiet Wioletta K. 
I forgive much more easily and I no longer shout or express anger in ways that can be both harmful to myself and other…

Letting Go and Going Forward

It's  Monday. . .

I'm at a library I've never been to before.
The women that work here aren't even experienced with computers so I'm going around offering help to those they simply give the direct answer, "I don't know," to. 
I can't help but to think of all the time I've spent not doing what I've wanted for the sake of a being that is emotionally unavailable and stuck in their conditioning and patterns. 
Just last week I asked myself, "Why do I keep going back?" 
The answer, I found, was based on something that I needed to free myself from entirely.  Stability. 
One of the worst illusions we as human beings love to attach ourselves to. A sense of stability.
So these days I am spending a lot of time reprogramming my beliefs and conditioning - as well as investing in my own business instead of going out and helping others achieve their dreams (while putting mine on the back burner).

"The spiritual substance from which comes al…