Relationships; Reading The Fine Print
All relationships are like contractual agreements. Each party expects to receive certain things. In our intimate relationships, sex is like a signature on the contract. Unfortunately, many of us sign the contract without reading the fine print. By the time we discover what kind of deal we are being offered, we are bound by our signature. Some contracts have a ninety-day grace period. This gives the parties the opportunity to examine the merchandise, test the service, make any necessary adjustments or bow out of the agreement. It makes sense to apply a grace period to our intimate relationships. We may need time to assess behavior; true intentions and the performance history of the prospects. The fine-print issues such as habits, motive and background cannot be seen with closed eyes.Let them wait. And wait they do.
I am willing to read the fine print.