Experience is a good teacher. but she runs up big bills. - Minna Antrim
If life is about learning and growing, why do we think our relationships are beyond life's classroom? Every relationships -family, friendship, love and marriage - is about growth and development. There are certain skills we need. Certain strengths we must develop. Certain lessons we must learn. Our relationships provide the perfect framework for us. We come together to share. learn and grow. Once we have acquired the skill, imparted the information or learned the lesson, it is time for something else. It is time to move on. That my feel like, "You don't love me anymore." What it actually says is, "You don't have anything else to give me." If we could move beyond the emotion of it and look for growth, ending a relationship, moving out of a family or friendship would be a great deal less painful. We want to learn how to be grateful for everything we get in our relations. Somewhere beyond the grief, fear, pain and disappointment is a mighty lesson just waiting to be learned.
Affirmation: Every encounter is an experience of growth.
No matter what is happening in your relationships, fear nothing and no one. When you walk with the consciousness of the Creator, there is nothing to fear.
Do Not Fear:
- That people will harm you or leave you
- Obstacles that confront you
- Being Alone