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The Difference Between Preference and Judgement

I recently had an experience where I was judged based on someone else’s preference. 
The situation went like this, “Do you think this person is pretty?” I didn’t agree with that persons preference but did not shame them for believing or feeling the way they did about the other persons beauty. Moments later, I was being attacked for being, “untrustworthy,” and a ton of other things that simply aren’t who I am or what I stand for in my life. This situation, even though it occurred months ago, prompted me to share this piece with you all today. 
Preference: A greater liking for one alternative over another or others.
Judgement: The ability to make considered decisions or come to sensible conclusions; a misfortune or calamity view as a divine punishment.

In no way, shape or form is it okay to put others down based on your own preferences. We are all entitled to like what we like, and dislike what we wish to dislike. There is a difference between preference and judgement. What occurred during …